Dear Burned Out Black Girl, You Can Love Them and Still Question the Life You’re Building Together

How to tell the difference between accepting someone’s humanity and settling for a relationship that cannot hold the life you want

Someone can be a good person and still not be the right partner for the life you want.

They can make you laugh. They can comfort you. They can know your history, understand parts of you other people never reached, and feel like home in ways that are difficult to explain.

You can love them deeply and still wonder whether the relationship is enough.

That que…