Dear Burned Out Black Girl, Your Relationship Is Draining You Because There Is No Infrastructure of Shared Responsibility

How to build a structure that prevents burnout and resentment

I have spent the last year and a half trying to understand what support actually means to me. Not what support is supposed to look like, not what a “good relationship” is supposed to look like, and not what a family is supposed to look like from the outside. I mean what support actually feels like in my real life. I am an entrepreneur, a mother, a thera…